Loud, proud, and authentically you. That’s how it should be and that’s how it is on POF. We want you to show up and feel free to be who you truly are. However you identify or don’t identify, you’re always welcome on POF.
Don’t know where to start? Looking for queer dating advice? We can help you find the right people and the best matches. We can also give you ideas for where you can go and what you can do on your dates. You can check out our blog, The Latest Catch, to stay updated on all of our LGBT dating advice. Wait, did we just become the best matchmaker?
With one of the largest dating apps and sites, plus thousands of active singles, you’re bound to meet other single lesbians just like you. And with plenty (get it?) of ways to communicate, you truly can date your way. Choose from text, video chat, voice chat, watching live streams, playing games, and more. Your perfect lesbian date is just a swipe or search away.

Remember when we said we’d give you some date ideas? Well, we’re delivering on that promise. C’mon, we wouldn’t leave you hanging.

1. Cook for your date
2. Go stargazing
3. Book a spa day
4. Get a couple’s massage
5. Go out for a dine-in the-dark experience
6. Go to the drive-in movie theater
7. Take a night cruise
8. Plan a picnic
9. Try a new restaurant
10. Make cocktails for each other
11. Take a day trip
12. Drink wine and listen to music
13. Have a games night
14. Have a movie day with snacks
15. Go out to the theater
16. Go on a hike
17. Try something new
18. Go skydiving
19. Take a camping trip
20. Go to your local food market
21. Visit the museum
22. Have a touristy day in your own city
23. Do a cooking class
24. Go to a cocktail class
25. Check out the arcade
26. Go out for brunch

We hope that gets you started on your dating journey and gives you fresh ideas for fun ways to keep things interesting. Doing things that matter with people that matter to you is what life is all about! And if they don’t feel that way about you, 1. We’re confused because you’re amazing and 2. It’s time to move along to the next. You can think of us as your wing person, cheerleader, and support group all in one. No worries, no need to thank us.
If you don’t know, now you know… there are some really bogus misconceptions about lesbians. You may have even heard them yourself and they may have caused some lesbian dating issues for you in the past. For example:
All lesbians know each other
Lesbians hate men
Lesbians always stay friends with their exes
Lesbians are either butch or femme
Lesbians dress like men

Sorry, what? How bizarre is that? Those that want to put you in a box aren’t worth your time, so just do you and live your life. There, we said it. We’re moving on.
Sigh, anyways… that’s enough of that silliness. In a world that can sometimes feel unaccepting, we want to welcome you to POF with open arms. In the end, we all want to find love, be loved, and be happy. Whether you’re dating after coming out or have proudly been out for a while, we want to help you find who you’re looking for!
Our matching algorithm will have you meeting the most compatible lesbians in no time! The algorithm uses the unique attributes from your dating profile and connects you with the best single lesbians. Trust us, it’s incredibly accurate—you’ll be very impressed. So, feeling ready to get started?